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OUR DAUGHTERS ARE A BLESSING, NOT A BURDEN


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OUR DAUGHTERS ARE A BLESSING, NOT A BURDEN

Children are a great gift from Almighty Allah to all parents. Parents must think of their children as such treasures that the all the wealth and material resources are worthless as when compared to one�s children. We, as parents, should thank Almighty Allah for blessing us with children whether they are boys or girls. Today, it is quite disheartening to see that some parents rejoice when the newborn child is a male and show their dissatisfaction when the child is a female. But, this should not be the attitude. Islam does not condone this type of behaviour, as such was the manner of the parents in the time of ignorance.

 

Daughters are without doubt a great blessing from Almighty Allah. They are a means of salvation and a path to Jannah for their parents. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has stated that when a boy is born, then he brings one Noor (light) and when a girl is born, then she brings two Noors. It has been narrated in a Hadith that the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has stated that if parents are kind and generous towards their daughters, then they will be so close to the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) in Jannah, like one finger is to the next. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) has also stated that the person who is faced with hardship due to his daughters, and makes Sabr (is patient), then his daughters will be a Purdah (curtain) between him and Hell.

 

The crux of one narration states that one who loves his daughters and withstands the hardship of grooming and getting them married, then Almighty Allah makes Jannah Waajib (compulsory) on him and keeps him protected from the Fire of Hell.

 

Hazrat Khwaja Uthman Haaroni (radi Allahu anhu), the Peer-o-Murshid of Khwaja-e-Khwajegaan, Hazrat Sheikh Khwaja Ghareeb Nawaaz (radi Allahu anhu), states: "Daughters are a gift from Almighty Allah. Those parents who are kind towards them, then Almighty Allah is generous towards such parents. Those who are merciful to their daughters, Almighty Allah is Merciful towards them." The great Saint also said, "When a girl is born to a family, then between the parents and Hell, there shall be a distance of five hundred years."

 

It has been stated that when parents rejoice at the birth of a daughter, this is greater than making Tawaaf of the Kaaba seventy times. Muslims should also remember that the family of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) is from his beloved daughter Sayyidah Fatima Zahra (radi Allahu anha).

 

Dear brothers and sisters, rejoice on the birth of your daughters, love and guide them and give them that which is due to them from your belongings. Do not deprive them of their inheritance as they also have say in this. Remember! Daughters are a blessing and not a burden.

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(salam)

(ja) sister bohat pyari baat share ki ap ne

yaqeenan betian ALLAH (azw) ki rahmat hain

ALLAH (azw) ka be ibtiha ahsan k deen e islam ne orat ko sahih maqam o martabay se nawaza

or Alhamdulillah isy pastion se utha ker azmaton tak ponhchaya.

ALLAH (azw) ham sab musalmanon ko deen e islam per sahi tareeqay se amal kernay ki madani sa'adat ata farmaye

ameeeen bijahin nabiyyil ameen (saw)

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Assalamo Alikum ....subhan Allah Azzawajal.......masha Allah Azzawajal...........sweet sis.....buhet khoob........waqee betiyaan rehmat hein....issi liye...tu .....methey bapa jaan ko Allah Azzawajal ney 4 madani munniyaan ata fermein hein........masha Allah Azzawajal........Allah Azzawajal her musliman ko yeh madani soch ata fermay ameen.

 

wasalam with request of dua e maghfirat.

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(salam)

 

Masha Allah sister Buhat Achee post hay.

 

Naa sirf Hamare Bapaa jaan ko Allah Azwajjal ne 4 madani muniyaan ataa farmaayee hen, Balik Hamare Imam-e-Ahl-e-Suunat (ra) ko b 4 madani muniyaan theen, Shahzada-e-Aala Hadrat Huzoor Mufti-e-Azam-e-Hind Shah Muhammed Mustafa Raza khan Aal-e-Rahaman Jilaani Miyaan (ra) ko 6 Madani Muniyaan theen, Aur Jaanasheen-e-Huzoor Mufti-e-Azam-e-Hind, Taj-jush-shari'at Mufti Shah Akhtar Raza khan ko b 4 Madani Muniyaan hain.

 

(salam)

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Thankyou, great posting sis, In the society we live in many people think Son's are better then Daughters what they fail to understand is that daughters are blessigns from Allah Talaa, Daughters are Rahamat... Humeh hush honah chachyeh jho Allah Talaa gives us, kuch loag hai jinka koi baceh he nahi aur woh taras rahe baby keh liyeh, chaheh larki ho ya larka...

 

personally I think kai girls are much better then boys lol, boys misbehave to much aur larkiya are angels so cute you can try various things with them, dress them do they hair etc :P

 

.............aur larkeh are sooo boring.

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Assalamo Alikum ....subhan Allah Azzawajal.......masha Allah Azzawajal...........sweet sis.....buhet khoob........waqee betiyaan rehmat hein....issi liye...tu .....methey bapa jaan ko Allah Azzawajal ney 4 madani munniyaan ata fermein hein........masha Allah Azzawajal........Allah Azzawajal her musliman ko yeh madani soch ata fermay ameen.

 

wasalam with request of dua e maghfirat.

(wasalam)

madinaaa!

faizan e attar sis! ap ne kaha meethay bapa jan ki 4 madani munnian hain,nahin ,murshidi attar ki to aik hi shahzadi hain.

ghaliban ap likhna chah rahi hongi k hamaray meethay meethay aaqa (saw) ki 4 shahzadian thin

sayyidatuna fatimatuz zahra radi Allahu ta'ala anha,sayyidatuna zainab radi Allahu ta'ala anha.sayyidatuna umme kulsoom radi Allahu ta'ala anha,sayyidatuna ruqaiyyah radi Allahu ta'ala anha.

ALLAH (azw) aaqa kareem (saw) ki in shahzadion k taqway o parhaizgari k sadaqay mein hamain bhi shariat e mutahhara per sahi tareeqay se chalnay ki madani sa'adat ata farmaye

aameeeen bijahin nabiyyil ameen (saw)

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madinaaa!

faizan e attar sis! ap ne kaha meethay bapa jan ki 4 madani munnian hain,nahin ,murshidi attar ki to aik hi shahzadi hain.

ghaliban ap likhna chah rahi hongi k hamaray meethay meethay aaqa ki 4 shahzadian thin

 

salam k bad araz hey k meri naqis maloomat k mutabiq mery bapa jaan aor ap k murshid Attar ki 3 nawasiyaan aor aik poti hey . shaid faizane attar sis or bro ka ishara iss taraf hu. ager main ney ghalat kaha tu meri islah ferma dein,

 

shukria.

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salam k bad araz hey k meri naqis maloomat k mutabiq mery bapa jaan aor ap k murshid Attar ki 3 nawasiyaan aor aik poti hey . shaid faizane attar sis or bro ka ishara iss taraf hu. ager main ney ghalat kaha tu meri islah ferma dein,

 

shukria.

(wasalam)

ji yaqeenan isi taraf ishara hoga hamari in sis or bro ka

wassalam ma'al ikram

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Assalamo alikum g iman sis i was actually trying to point out (as Ghame Murshid said) that our sweet murshid has 4 grand daughters and no grand son this is Allah's Rahmah and Favour of RasoolAllah sallAllahu alihe wasallam for our sweet bapa jaan. thanx Gham e Murshid

 

now i give a link of very sweet apeech regarding to maddani traing of daughters and useful for all sisters and brothers plz listen all .

 

http://www.dawateislami.net/media/speaker....K&lanid=all

 

another new and sweet book for training of children plz must read or download

 

http://www.dawateislami.net/library/detail...x?litid=lit-345

 

 

wasalam with request of due maghfirat

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(salam)

personally I think kai girls are much better then boys lol, boys misbehave to much aur larkiya are angels so cute you can try various things with them, dress them do they hair etc :P

 

.............aur larkeh are sooo boring

hehehe

exactly sister i am agree with you100% :P

(ah)

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(salam)

(sa) nice post!!

beshak shariat e mutahhara k jitnay ahkamat hain hamari behtari k hi liye hain Allah (azw) ne jin kamon k kernay ka hukum diya un k kernay mein bhalai hi bhalai or jin k kernay se roka un k kernay mein nuqsanat hain kash aj hamaray musalman is mukhtasar si baat ko samajh lain to deen e islam per amal kerna intihai asan hojaye ga.

Allah (azw) pyaray aaqa (saw) k sadaqay mein ham sab musalmonon ko shariat e mutahhara ki mukammal pairwi kernay ki madani sa'adat ata farmaye

aaaaaameeeeeeeeeeeeeeen bijahin nabiyyil ameen (saw)

aameen summa aameen

beggar of gham e murshid

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