SubhanAllah that cleared my question as well
I went Pakistan a few months ago and this event took place, they made me sit as well and I had no idea what was going on. I mean people just freak you out by saying that you should not refuse to it or the stuff they serve you or else something's gonna happen to you as well. I didn't know anything so I just did what they told me to, they even told me to read but i refused.
I have another question - why do they relate it to Hazrat-e-Fatima ?